'Everyone' is NOT 'doing it'. You'd be surprised - in fact - by how many guys are NOT having sex. [Or have NEVER had sex] Some guys are waiting until they are married. Some guys are waiting until THEY feel the 'time is right'. [FOR THEM]  Some guys are waiting until they find the 'right' guy or girl.  AND some guys are just NOT INTERESTED. [Believe it or not]  Either way - IF you REALLY want to be a MAN - then decide FOR YOURSELF if and WHEN you are going to have SEX.        It's up to YOU.

B   E        A        M   A   N

D O N ' T      H A V E      S E X

Having SEX does NOT make you a 'MAN'

D I D    Y O U    K N O W    T H A T ??

A 'real man' makes up his OWN mind.  He does NOT allow himself to be pressured into doing ANYTHING.  If YOU do NOT want to have sex - then DON'T.  It's up to YOU.

"EVERYONE IS DOING IT"

THAT is a LIE

DO NOT allow yourself to be pressured into doing something that YOU do NOT want to DO.

	Tell me what you think I absolutely agree I agree - for the most part I guess that's true I'm not sure WHAT I think I disagree completely A 'man' is NOT a 'man' UNTIL he has SEX Sheesh Craig!! You REALLY need to get out more. Maybe you're trying to comfort yourself with that dribble because YOU aren't 'getting any'. Turn OFF your computer - find some stranger - and turn yourself into a 'MAN'.

	Have you ever said 'YES' to sex when you REALLY wanted to say 'NO'? Yes - I have [because I didn't want to hurt the feelings of the person I was with] Yes - I have [because I didn't want to be the 'only one' NOT 'doing it'] Yes - I have [because I didn't want anyone to think I was 'gay'] Yes - I have [because I didn't want anyone to think I was 'straight'] Yes - I have [but I don't regret it] No - I haven't [anytime I've had sex it was because I wanted 'it'] No - I haven't [a 'real man' NEVER says 'NO'] No - and I've NEVER had sex I wish I SAID 'NO'. Even though I was 'OK' with having sex [at the time] I later regretted 'doing it'

	How old were you when you FIRST had ANAL, VAGINAL or ORAL SEX?? I've NEVER had sex between 0 and 10 years old 11 years old 12 years old 13 years old 14 years old 15 years old 16 years old 17 years old 18 years old 19 years old 20 years old 21 years old 22 years old 23 years old 24 years old 25 to 30 years old 30 to 35 years old 35 to 40 years old 40+ years old

Don't forget - there is NO SUCH THING as 'SAFE SEX'. The best WE can ever hope          for is 'SAFER SEX'. Sex is ALWAYS a RISK. Both physically AND emotionally.

P L E A S E

Respect yourself ENOUGH to ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM. [And that INCLUDES when you're having ORAL SEX - at least until you KNOW FOR SURE the person you're with is disease free] Even IF it's hard for you to believe that anything matters - trust me when I tell you this - YOU MATTER. [And so does your FUTURE] Do EVERYTHING you CAN do to keep yourself SAFE.

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